10+ ways to discover your own happiness

Nowadays life is fast and hectic, new challenges every day. In all this rush, we all forget to stay happy and enjoy life at fullest.

   
Here are some reason why we are not able to find happiness, and mashed up our lives.

First, Save your time, my mean by saying that is make schedule for every thing you have to do, you know you have made the schedule so just get relax that you just have to follow your schedule. before going to another task you know you know you have that much of time, so you can concentrate on that current task. Without schedule, you think oh everything you have to do this and that, you will stuck in that only. When you get free time then only get time to relax and concentrate on you.

Second, Search happiness within you not at surroundings. When you get time for you, do what makes you happy, i.e. talk to family person, play any game, reading books, watch tv, movie, do meditation, go for a walk. Happiness will never come to you from another person, it will come from you from within, may be some relationships and person make you happy but that can'y be trusted or rely for your own happiness, because at some point of time that person or relationship let you down. So, do what your soul feel good after doing that.

Third, Forgiveness, this is a vital property for a human, try to forgive person, no matter what person did to you, if a person can't forgive, cause could be ego, jealousy, anger etc. A person full of ego and anger can't be happy.

Fourth, Jealousy, jealousy comes with the feeling of inequality, its like cancer to your personality, slowly slowly kills the quality of a person from within. So don't jealous anyone for anything.

Fifth, your fears and fear of failure, face your fear what ever it is? Always try and fail but never fail to try. you will fail one time, 2 times, many times but not always. Fear is one of the major cause for your unhappiness. So fight with your fear.

Sixth, Selfishness, This is one of the reason for unhappiness, when you become selfish and self centered, happiness goes far away from you because help others and sharing things always comes with happiness while see smile on face of other because of you.

Seventh, you are always right attitude, This attitude shows you are self centered, egoist. What you say, what you do is right, others opinion doesn't matter to you. Unfortunately, this kind of attitude may be make you happy for that moment,

Eighth,  Process of "Giving", giving is like meditation, it always keep you happy, giving a small or big thing, a living or non-living thing. It will give you a satisfaction and relief you helped other, you are a person who do good for needy one. This feeling of satisfaction and relief give you happiness.

Ninth, Living in Now not in past, learn from past is good but never live in past, day to day circumstances changes, new challenges come in your way, if you think, previous was better than this, your life will stop, Stopping rust your life, motivation and happiness.

Tenth, Your Expectations, Expecting Something visit link, it will tell you, more you expect more you hurt, and more unhappiness.

Eleventh, Anger, it is one of the most dangerous human nature, which through happiness far away from you, you cant take proper decisions while you angry, a wrong decision can spoil every thing.

Twelfth, Dependence, dependent person can't take their decision by self, when you can't take decisions, you can't decide good bad for you, its up-to the person to whom you are dependent. A independent person, take his decision by self, a good decision is always good for him/her, a bad decision give him/her a experience for life and not to repeat such mistake again by taking that wrong decision. In both case, happiness will be there.


I hope there are more things which make a person happy, i just underlined major causes. Please let me know if you liked this article, you can also add if you wish to add in comments share your views.

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Never fall in love

Never fall in love : Different people has different perception for this sentence, but we talk about LOVE, Love is a pure, sacred and strong word.

Love which leads you to negativity, take you away from goal of life and success, your responsibilities for yourself, your family and the society isn't love. It can be other than love but  not love.

Love is always positive, which motivate you to grow in life, which told you to achieve success in life and fulfill all your responsibilities.


So better understand the fall in love, Be in love is a good thing, but going down in life due to love is not a good thing.

I hope now the meaning of fall in love is more clear than before. So, i request our young generation to not to dishonour the word LOVE.

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Problems and the magic wand

Life is full of problems, that is never ending process, some problems easy to resolve yourself but some are so critical, we try very hard but we are not able to find solution.

At that time, we wish for a magic wand, just swing it and problem will resolve. But its not like that, this is the real world, not the fantasy world. we need to face it any how. Many people told do this do that to keep you calm during the difficult time. But when it comes in actual in-front of you, all advices vanish.

What help you at that time, just your discretion, your intelligence and your strength. Because what you have to face, just face it alone. and this is the only magic wand, which can help you solve your problems, this is the only thing you need to understand!!!

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Stop being selfish

I often heard that Human is a social animal, Why man is called a social animal? Necessity, dependencies makes man social. Isolation is like a punishment for human.

This thing applies to every person in society, in workplace in a community or in an organization. Being smart is good in a group of people but being selfish, using others for your benefit is not good. When you have to live with work with a group of people, any person cannot be selfish because only few times person can make fool to others, take advantage of others. Few times it be unknown to others but some day your selfishness open to others. Which will not a good thing for selfish person.

Selfish person survive for few days using others but despised by others, sometimes people socially prohibit selfish person, selfish person face peoples ignorance at the end.

The thing which making person selfish, left that person with no choice to think only about self his/ her benefits. But when he/she face the consequences, then only he/she come to know, what he/she lost after being selfish.

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Face your fear

Everyone has some kind of fears in their life, some afraid of height, some has lack of confidence, fear facing people. some has fear of water, some students fear of maths,some afraid of dark, some afraid of go to the stage etc etc. This fear is making you weak and slave, blocking your mind to new things.

But in life, circumstances come when fear is in-front of you, your breath seems to be running faster, palm and feet are sweating and the ground beneath your feet, slips away. Several things passing through your mind And at that time you have two options, pull your feet back or go ahead and face the fear.

Pull your feet back to face your fear  will lower your self confidence and moral. Just grab some courage, keep yourself calm, believe in yourself and go face the fear. It will increase your self confidence and also you will set free from your fear for ever.

You always get courage, self confidence and strength by each and every experience which make you stop and feel some fear to explore new experiences, new world and new oppotunities.

When you exploring new thing, that's mean you are growing!!!

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Why are you unhappy?

Most of the time we feel unhappy, you know why?

EXPECTATIONS

Yes, expectations from someone which keeps you unhappy in 95% cases in daily life. A friend expect something from other friend, a wife expect much more form her husband or vice versa, a son expect from parents and parents from their child, a boyfriend from his girlfriend and girlfriend from her boyfriend. The list is long.

Every relationship suffers just because of this expectation.

Sometime other person not able to fulfill your expectation knowingly or unknowingly due busy life, hectic schedules, lots of other responsibilities and priorities. In that case you must understand the situation so don't take it otherwise.

Sometimes other person not able to fulfill your expectation, because he don't want to fulfill it. What is his\her intention behind this is very important to know because you are not an important person in his\her life,  Might be he\she is just using you.

More you expect, more you hurt. So, I must say, don't expect anything from anyone, if you wish to live happy. If some one do something for you say thanks to him\her, and other things will not affect you.

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Family

Family is the most important thing in the World. Technically, family is the smallest unit of a society. That means your father, your mother, your siblings (brothers and sisters), your spouse, your children, your grandparents, your aunts, your uncles etc, but for some persons those do not have blood relatives, for those family are whom you share your feelings, love, happiness and your sorrow.

Family are the people with whom you feel secure and comfortable. A family care, love and protect each other. Love from your family to you is unconditional, Family is one who accept you for what you are.

What ever you learn from childhood is come from family, so what ever is you are today is just because of your family. Person's first education starts with in the family, family is the first teacher to the child. You always left with the impression of your family on you either you belongs to a Modern family or a conservative family, each has their pros and cons but I'm not here to discuss here pros and cons of family type.

Family is the one who always there for you, when you are in problem, give you piece of advice when you need that. You always need someone to share with, family do that to you, you share your happiness, your problems with your family.

If you have a family, you are lucky than those who don't have, so respect that.

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