5+ signs You don't love your job

We all know work is necessary for livelihood, some get job easily but some get it after struggle, but the thing is if you are doing job as per your passion, its good but when you are doing job which is not related to your passion, its not good for you and for your employer, because it's affecting the productivity of organization, there is growth for you too.

So, how to identify when you need to know that this is not a right job for you, and you dont love your job.

1> When you depend for your work on other
 This can be happens only when you are not competent for the job, any how you got the job but you dont know how to complete the task, so waiting other to help you, asking for help from other.


2> When you dont positive to talk about ur job
When ever there is some discussion about your job, you irritates and there is no any positive you have to told other

3> Afraid to go to work
when you cant reach targets, you afraid to face your boss, feel lack of confidence.

4> You looked at clock again and again
 This is the sign which shows your uninterested in your job. You look at the clock hits to leave time.

5> No Work Satisfaction
 There is no work satisfaction, because you are not enjoying your work.

6> Struggling to achieve targets
There is target to achieve a goal but you are unable to achieve it, not once but again and again. It can be happen due to you are not showing interest in your job, or you are incompetent for job.

It can be happen that in start of your career, you have to compromise for interested and you loving job, but as soon as you get stability, you can move to your loved job by preparing platform for it.
When ever you gone through these symptoms at you job, go take a switch to new job which you love.

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Problems and the magic wand

Life is full of problems, that is never ending process, some problems easy to resolve yourself but some are so critical, we try very hard but we are not able to find solution.

At that time, we wish for a magic wand, just swing it and problem will resolve. But its not like that, this is the real world, not the fantasy world. we need to face it any how. Many people told do this do that to keep you calm during the difficult time. But when it comes in actual in-front of you, all advices vanish.

What help you at that time, just your discretion, your intelligence and your strength. Because what you have to face, just face it alone. and this is the only magic wand, which can help you solve your problems, this is the only thing you need to understand!!!

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Face your fear

Everyone has some kind of fears in their life, some afraid of height, some has lack of confidence, fear facing people. some has fear of water, some students fear of maths,some afraid of dark, some afraid of go to the stage etc etc. This fear is making you weak and slave, blocking your mind to new things.

But in life, circumstances come when fear is in-front of you, your breath seems to be running faster, palm and feet are sweating and the ground beneath your feet, slips away. Several things passing through your mind And at that time you have two options, pull your feet back or go ahead and face the fear.

Pull your feet back to face your fear  will lower your self confidence and moral. Just grab some courage, keep yourself calm, believe in yourself and go face the fear. It will increase your self confidence and also you will set free from your fear for ever.

You always get courage, self confidence and strength by each and every experience which make you stop and feel some fear to explore new experiences, new world and new oppotunities.

When you exploring new thing, that's mean you are growing!!!

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Why are you unhappy?

Most of the time we feel unhappy, you know why?

EXPECTATIONS

Yes, expectations from someone which keeps you unhappy in 95% cases in daily life. A friend expect something from other friend, a wife expect much more form her husband or vice versa, a son expect from parents and parents from their child, a boyfriend from his girlfriend and girlfriend from her boyfriend. The list is long.

Every relationship suffers just because of this expectation.

Sometime other person not able to fulfill your expectation knowingly or unknowingly due busy life, hectic schedules, lots of other responsibilities and priorities. In that case you must understand the situation so don't take it otherwise.

Sometimes other person not able to fulfill your expectation, because he don't want to fulfill it. What is his\her intention behind this is very important to know because you are not an important person in his\her life,  Might be he\she is just using you.

More you expect, more you hurt. So, I must say, don't expect anything from anyone, if you wish to live happy. If some one do something for you say thanks to him\her, and other things will not affect you.

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No means no

In every one's life some moments come, when you are not interested to something, and you wanted to say NO but due to some reasons you say YES instead of No.

Sometime in pressure, some times you don't want to ruin your relationship with person.

But any how this thing will affect you.

If you are saying YES in pressure, some day the limit of that pressure will over and at time you need to say NO. So why don't you say No in beginning so no one can take advantage of your uprightness, misuse you for their advantage and never tried it on you again.

If you are not saying NO, just because you don't want to ruin your relationship with that person. If the person is real close to you he/she will never mind if you say NO to him/her, that person can be your your family person, friend or family friend. If he/she minds while you are saying No, that means that person cannot be the person for whom you care not to ruin your relationship with him/her.


So, stay cool, and say NO when you want to say to anyone. It will help you stay comfortable for further.

#NomeansNo #Experiences #Pragmatism #Thought #RealLifeExperience

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Stop Harassment

There are many forms of harassment you see around you, might be you also gone through or going through any king of harassment- workplace harassment, sexual harassment, personal harassment, racial harassment, harassment on ground of sexual orientation, stalking, eve teasing etc.

When you feel someone is doing wrong with you, put your point robustly to that person, realize him/her that  you don't like what he/she did to you and you really don't agree with it. Warn him/her to never repeat this to you again.

If u are not showing a strong dissidence against that person that means you are encouraging that person to do more things with you. That person dare to do more worse things with you because your silence give him/her courage by two reasons first might be you are scared of him/her, second you are consent with, what he/she is doing with you.

Sometimes this leads to take wrong step due to fear of disgrace by  people and society. So, discuss things with someone to whom you feel comfortable, if you are a boy or girl tell your parents or elders, married person can tell this to their partners.. They will surely find a right way to get rid of your problem.

#Harassment #StopHarassment #stalking #EveTeasing #SexualHarassment

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When time is odd

Life is like a coin and pleasure and pain are two aspects of this coin, sometimes we go through good, happier time, everything is in favor of yours, But as a good time, bad time also there, when everything against you, what ever you do, come against you.

When time is odd, whatever you do, does not worth, even if you want to do something good, turns to bad. Things and people those were in your favor suddenly turn against you, nothing cross one's mind, how to make things right?

If you are going though this phase of life, these are the tips to overcome with this bad phase of life.
Do your work usually, if something goes wrong, do nothing. Do not show aggression, depression and hopelessness because any one of them can make situation more worst. So Stay Calm, just watch and try to control your anger and Stay Motivated, in the hope that tomorrow everything will be alright.

At the end of long dark night, there is always dawn full of hope.

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Learn from mistakes

We all make mistakes, making mistakes is not a bad thing, making mistakes gave you experiences in life, mistake realize you what you can make better?

Sometime we make mistake unknowingly, sometimes knowingly.

Making mistakes unknowingly can be acceptable once, might be life never give you chance again, and can be corrected. These type of mistakes in life give you experiences and  give you alert and aware you with the consequences. So from the next time you shall be cautious to that one. If you are ignoring these kind of same mistakes, those becomes knowingly mistakes.

Repetition of knowingly made mistakes can cause you for a failure, risky and ugly consequences in life. Time never repeats so once you get chance to correct your mistake, make it correct instead of making the same mistake. You'll always grow in life.

Sensible people always learn from their mistakes. So, it's up to you what you want to do.

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Key to success

When we talk about how to get success in life, we first start looking into life of successful persons and want to follow them. Compare you with others lead you to some others things rather than success, those are jealous, hate and  feverish, Which divert you from your prime goal.

Compare with others or compete with others can't be the ladders to reach the path of success.

Never compete with other, compete with yourself, when you compete with you, you are actually improving your yourself. Beat your own record everyday. Achieving success is a never ending process, you can't say it is finished now, there is no limit for it.

You make goals and try to achieve them, When you succeed to achieve them, you set new goals for yourself. That is why its never ending continuous process.

Remember, Success is a fight between you and yourself & it's a continuous process and this is the only Key to success.

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Women's Day

On the Women's Day, people instead of praise for women power, organising programs for women, political drama for one day, just assure the women respect for all day, in home, in group, in public, in your organization.

Women's respect is the most important when you wish to give something good to a woman, her self respect and your respect is what she deserve the most in stead of showing off of anything.

My Lovely Mother

You know why, think when a woman is your mother, keeps you 9 months in the womb, bear the pain till birth, after birth care for you, when you are not well, take care of you, sleepless nights for you, sacrifice for you, give you what is necessary for you, become your first teacher, scold you when its necessary, but love you the most. Most of the child are most lovable to his mother. You can't compare mother's love with anyone.

When a woman is your wife, who left her home after marriage, and adjust in a totally new environment with you. Support you in all your sorrow and happiness. Stand along with you when ever you need her. As a friend, as a adviser, as a supporter, as a companion. Care for you all over  life after your mother.

When a woman is your daughter she give you reason to laugh, when you came from work, she refresh your mind with her dollish acts, you remind your childhood, and give you a chance to become a child with her.

Your grandmother, your sister, your aunt, your friend all are the faces of the women.

People who don't respect woman, must read this post, then may be their mean mentality towards women will change. When ones mentality change then the society will change, when society change the state will change, when state change, the country will change, when country change, automatically world view towards Women change.

There are some exceptional cases, but due to those exceptions don't ignore women in your life, and respect all women.

Cheers to Womanhood, Happy Women's Day!!!

Dedicated to My Mother, My Wife +Shikha Gaurav Sharma , my sisters +Ankita Bajpai  +soumya awasthi , all my friends +Ankita Bhagdikar  +Aarti Bhagdikar  +Shibani Bhaduri   +Monika Dehra   +sonal jain  +Aruna  +Nisha Verma  +Vanessa Abreu   and all women...

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Moral and Ethical Education

Today we see our country and society is facing lots of ethical and moral issues, dowry system, dishonesty, corruption, inhumanity etc.

There are lots of cases showing lack of moral and ethical values. I'm not going to start with the list of those issues, what I'm going to click here, why is this happening  around all of us.

Today schools are competing for fee structure, infrastructure, interactive education by providing audio visual classrooms, more experienced teachers with field and practical knowledge. Lots of quiz, puzzle, music competition, cultural programs, sports, defensive skills, yoga and meditation. Providing building blocks for future in carrier prospectives.

But they forgot to teach the lessons for basic things the moral, ethical values and humanity, which are always needful allover your life for you, for your society and for your country. Lack of these basic lessons leads to crime and corruption. Sometimes i must say terrorism is reason because nobody teach them moral lesson of humanity, now days teenagers are involving in serious crime because they are not able to decide what is right and what is wrong, If they go through these lessons, something must resist them for doing wrong.

So there must be compulsion for schools to teach moral and ethical lessons as a compulsory Subject.

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Human Nature

What I can tell about human nature,  ask for more and more and never satisfied with his/her current condition.

When you were a child, you think that everyone is scolding you, might be possible you were not a child, when you grow up, you got busy with life lots of responsibilities, you wish, childhood was the best, no responsibilities, just fun and enjoy the childhood.

When you become old, you surely think i must do that thing when i was young, but during puzzled and running life time at the time of youth, i never got time for this and that. So please spare some time for your dreams, passion, hobbies and loved ones.

I must say enjoy the age in which you are at right now. So you never regret that you never enjoyed your life... and spare free time for your passion dreams, hobbies, family and friends. This is the reason, we call it human nature, asking for more and more and never satisfied.

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Afraid of facing problem and taking risk!!!

Sometimes we afraid of trying new things n taking risks, why because we don't know what would be the result ,we succeed or not... but I just motivated by one of my friend (I'm not mentioning his name in here). Might be possible we don't know about anything about the problem we'll face... but what is the problem in taking risk problem in hands, as u go through this problem, u learn a lot about it... you'll explore new things n get new experiences..

I'm thankful of him who realized me that thing, not by saying but by doing... If u have a problem then u should face n try to resolve the problem by ur efforts and when u believe that u can do it, u'll do it.. Believe in u give u strength and confidence.

Now, there is no fear in me..

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