5+ signs You don't love your job

We all know work is necessary for livelihood, some get job easily but some get it after struggle, but the thing is if you are doing job as per your passion, its good but when you are doing job which is not related to your passion, its not good for you and for your employer, because it's affecting the productivity of organization, there is growth for you too.

So, how to identify when you need to know that this is not a right job for you, and you dont love your job.

1> When you depend for your work on other
 This can be happens only when you are not competent for the job, any how you got the job but you dont know how to complete the task, so waiting other to help you, asking for help from other.


2> When you dont positive to talk about ur job
When ever there is some discussion about your job, you irritates and there is no any positive you have to told other

3> Afraid to go to work
when you cant reach targets, you afraid to face your boss, feel lack of confidence.

4> You looked at clock again and again
 This is the sign which shows your uninterested in your job. You look at the clock hits to leave time.

5> No Work Satisfaction
 There is no work satisfaction, because you are not enjoying your work.

6> Struggling to achieve targets
There is target to achieve a goal but you are unable to achieve it, not once but again and again. It can be happen due to you are not showing interest in your job, or you are incompetent for job.

It can be happen that in start of your career, you have to compromise for interested and you loving job, but as soon as you get stability, you can move to your loved job by preparing platform for it.
When ever you gone through these symptoms at you job, go take a switch to new job which you love.

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Never fall in love

Never fall in love : Different people has different perception for this sentence, but we talk about LOVE, Love is a pure, sacred and strong word.

Love which leads you to negativity, take you away from goal of life and success, your responsibilities for yourself, your family and the society isn't love. It can be other than love but  not love.

Love is always positive, which motivate you to grow in life, which told you to achieve success in life and fulfill all your responsibilities.


So better understand the fall in love, Be in love is a good thing, but going down in life due to love is not a good thing.

I hope now the meaning of fall in love is more clear than before. So, i request our young generation to not to dishonour the word LOVE.

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Problems and the magic wand

Life is full of problems, that is never ending process, some problems easy to resolve yourself but some are so critical, we try very hard but we are not able to find solution.

At that time, we wish for a magic wand, just swing it and problem will resolve. But its not like that, this is the real world, not the fantasy world. we need to face it any how. Many people told do this do that to keep you calm during the difficult time. But when it comes in actual in-front of you, all advices vanish.

What help you at that time, just your discretion, your intelligence and your strength. Because what you have to face, just face it alone. and this is the only magic wand, which can help you solve your problems, this is the only thing you need to understand!!!

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Face your fear

Everyone has some kind of fears in their life, some afraid of height, some has lack of confidence, fear facing people. some has fear of water, some students fear of maths,some afraid of dark, some afraid of go to the stage etc etc. This fear is making you weak and slave, blocking your mind to new things.

But in life, circumstances come when fear is in-front of you, your breath seems to be running faster, palm and feet are sweating and the ground beneath your feet, slips away. Several things passing through your mind And at that time you have two options, pull your feet back or go ahead and face the fear.

Pull your feet back to face your fear  will lower your self confidence and moral. Just grab some courage, keep yourself calm, believe in yourself and go face the fear. It will increase your self confidence and also you will set free from your fear for ever.

You always get courage, self confidence and strength by each and every experience which make you stop and feel some fear to explore new experiences, new world and new oppotunities.

When you exploring new thing, that's mean you are growing!!!

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Why are you unhappy?

Most of the time we feel unhappy, you know why?

EXPECTATIONS

Yes, expectations from someone which keeps you unhappy in 95% cases in daily life. A friend expect something from other friend, a wife expect much more form her husband or vice versa, a son expect from parents and parents from their child, a boyfriend from his girlfriend and girlfriend from her boyfriend. The list is long.

Every relationship suffers just because of this expectation.

Sometime other person not able to fulfill your expectation knowingly or unknowingly due busy life, hectic schedules, lots of other responsibilities and priorities. In that case you must understand the situation so don't take it otherwise.

Sometimes other person not able to fulfill your expectation, because he don't want to fulfill it. What is his\her intention behind this is very important to know because you are not an important person in his\her life,  Might be he\she is just using you.

More you expect, more you hurt. So, I must say, don't expect anything from anyone, if you wish to live happy. If some one do something for you say thanks to him\her, and other things will not affect you.

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Family

Family is the most important thing in the World. Technically, family is the smallest unit of a society. That means your father, your mother, your siblings (brothers and sisters), your spouse, your children, your grandparents, your aunts, your uncles etc, but for some persons those do not have blood relatives, for those family are whom you share your feelings, love, happiness and your sorrow.

Family are the people with whom you feel secure and comfortable. A family care, love and protect each other. Love from your family to you is unconditional, Family is one who accept you for what you are.

What ever you learn from childhood is come from family, so what ever is you are today is just because of your family. Person's first education starts with in the family, family is the first teacher to the child. You always left with the impression of your family on you either you belongs to a Modern family or a conservative family, each has their pros and cons but I'm not here to discuss here pros and cons of family type.

Family is the one who always there for you, when you are in problem, give you piece of advice when you need that. You always need someone to share with, family do that to you, you share your happiness, your problems with your family.

If you have a family, you are lucky than those who don't have, so respect that.

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No means no

In every one's life some moments come, when you are not interested to something, and you wanted to say NO but due to some reasons you say YES instead of No.

Sometime in pressure, some times you don't want to ruin your relationship with person.

But any how this thing will affect you.

If you are saying YES in pressure, some day the limit of that pressure will over and at time you need to say NO. So why don't you say No in beginning so no one can take advantage of your uprightness, misuse you for their advantage and never tried it on you again.

If you are not saying NO, just because you don't want to ruin your relationship with that person. If the person is real close to you he/she will never mind if you say NO to him/her, that person can be your your family person, friend or family friend. If he/she minds while you are saying No, that means that person cannot be the person for whom you care not to ruin your relationship with him/her.


So, stay cool, and say NO when you want to say to anyone. It will help you stay comfortable for further.

#NomeansNo #Experiences #Pragmatism #Thought #RealLifeExperience

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Build your Emergency Fund

Have you ever imagined to plan for an unexpected emergency/crises that might need a immediate cash at your hand? Yes, the unexpected crises like any kind of medical emergency or your job loss or any financial crises, which disturb your routine life, your current situation. In that kind of crises the fund you saved for emergency, save you from the financial crises, provides you composure and strength to face the crises.

Now how to build your emergency fund, save a significant amount of money that you feel you can save on the basis of  evaluation of your family income and you and your family needful expenses. When you calculate the amount of money you can save, save it in every short period like in every month. Don't wait for a lump sum amount to save. Regular small saving with lump sum amount would me the better option for raise fund for Emergency. Avoid extra inexpedient expenses and add that money to raise your Emergency Fund.

Now next question arises where to keep this fund so the fund must be easily accessible and grow with time, so don't keep it at home. Invest this money very safely, save it to saving bank account of reputed banks which offers higher rate of interests is a better option. A flexible bank account and saving options to withdraw money without any penalty and earn a FD interest rates on your deposited money, for example ICICI Bank's iWish kind of thing is a good option. Invest in Gold and Silver, buy Gold/ Silver Coins and Bars are good options, buy them when price is low. Gold is always good for long term investment, gives a better price return over the year and easily sold when ever you have emergency/crises.

Invest in Mutual funds only when you have knowledge of it or in the supervision of a knowledgeable person.

As I have already told your emergency fund, save you from financial/medical or any kind of crises/emergency  with composure and strength to face the crises/emergency and concentrate on the crises/emergency, instead of arranging fund and borrowing money at higher rate of interest from other sources.

If you never imagined about Emergency Fund for You and your Family, then start planning now.


#Money #Savings #EmergencyFund #Family #Emergency #Crises #MoneyCrises #FinancialCrises #MedicalCrises #MedicalEmergency

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In influence, never ruin friendship / relationship

I have a short story to tell you.

There are three friends A, B and C. B was the BEST friend of A, B always there for A whatever is the condition good or bad, one day there was some dispute happened between A and C, C did something wrong which was not good for A, so A and C start stay away from each other, no Hi no bye, as a best friend B also started stay away and stopped talking, listening everything from C for forever. B was doing that because C did wrong with his/her best friend A. B ruined his relationship with C just for the sake of friendship with A.

But after few months, B sees that the A starts initiate talking, liking things on FB of C, start establish friendship like never nothing has happened. In all this only B became fool, you know why, B ruined his friendship with C for forever just because of A, and now A and C become friends again.

Many of us suffered like B, So moral of the story is that never break your friendship/relation with someone until you have your own issues with person. For friendship sake never ruin your relation/friendship with any other friend or person.

#friendship #relationship  #friend #story #moralofstory #experience #relation #lifeExperiences

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Stop Harassment

There are many forms of harassment you see around you, might be you also gone through or going through any king of harassment- workplace harassment, sexual harassment, personal harassment, racial harassment, harassment on ground of sexual orientation, stalking, eve teasing etc.

When you feel someone is doing wrong with you, put your point robustly to that person, realize him/her that  you don't like what he/she did to you and you really don't agree with it. Warn him/her to never repeat this to you again.

If u are not showing a strong dissidence against that person that means you are encouraging that person to do more things with you. That person dare to do more worse things with you because your silence give him/her courage by two reasons first might be you are scared of him/her, second you are consent with, what he/she is doing with you.

Sometimes this leads to take wrong step due to fear of disgrace by  people and society. So, discuss things with someone to whom you feel comfortable, if you are a boy or girl tell your parents or elders, married person can tell this to their partners.. They will surely find a right way to get rid of your problem.

#Harassment #StopHarassment #stalking #EveTeasing #SexualHarassment

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Key to success

When we talk about how to get success in life, we first start looking into life of successful persons and want to follow them. Compare you with others lead you to some others things rather than success, those are jealous, hate and  feverish, Which divert you from your prime goal.

Compare with others or compete with others can't be the ladders to reach the path of success.

Never compete with other, compete with yourself, when you compete with you, you are actually improving your yourself. Beat your own record everyday. Achieving success is a never ending process, you can't say it is finished now, there is no limit for it.

You make goals and try to achieve them, When you succeed to achieve them, you set new goals for yourself. That is why its never ending continuous process.

Remember, Success is a fight between you and yourself & it's a continuous process and this is the only Key to success.

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Search of GOD

I heard many ppl that where is god in this iron age, where to search him? Wondering here n thr, searching  for God.. Searching him in temples, gurudwara, mosques and churches.. huh no wonder what they found thr. How do u know he is God when u meet him? How shall u define God?

I heard from ppl that GOD is  who give u life , food , shelter and take care of urself whenever u need him the most...

But ppl forget that on this earth,our parents are our god, who gave u life who fulfill all your needs n requirements, they involved in child's life to help them to mature them from a baby to an adult. Teach u etiquette and other important things that help u live as responsible person in society and make u a complete man/ woman.

parent plays every role for u help u grow  such when u need a friend they become friends of urs, when u need a teacher, they become a teacher for u etc. other than father and mother.

God can't look every one at a time, that's why he made parents to take care of their children. 

But unknowingly we ppl wonder here n thr in search of god.

Always give love and respect to ur parents...

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Afraid of facing problem and taking risk!!!

Sometimes we afraid of trying new things n taking risks, why because we don't know what would be the result ,we succeed or not... but I just motivated by one of my friend (I'm not mentioning his name in here). Might be possible we don't know about anything about the problem we'll face... but what is the problem in taking risk problem in hands, as u go through this problem, u learn a lot about it... you'll explore new things n get new experiences..

I'm thankful of him who realized me that thing, not by saying but by doing... If u have a problem then u should face n try to resolve the problem by ur efforts and when u believe that u can do it, u'll do it.. Believe in u give u strength and confidence.

Now, there is no fear in me..

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