Why are you unhappy?

Most of the time we feel unhappy, you know why?

EXPECTATIONS

Yes, expectations from someone which keeps you unhappy in 95% cases in daily life. A friend expect something from other friend, a wife expect much more form her husband or vice versa, a son expect from parents and parents from their child, a boyfriend from his girlfriend and girlfriend from her boyfriend. The list is long.

Every relationship suffers just because of this expectation.

Sometime other person not able to fulfill your expectation knowingly or unknowingly due busy life, hectic schedules, lots of other responsibilities and priorities. In that case you must understand the situation so don't take it otherwise.

Sometimes other person not able to fulfill your expectation, because he don't want to fulfill it. What is his\her intention behind this is very important to know because you are not an important person in his\her life,  Might be he\she is just using you.

More you expect, more you hurt. So, I must say, don't expect anything from anyone, if you wish to live happy. If some one do something for you say thanks to him\her, and other things will not affect you.

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Family

Family is the most important thing in the World. Technically, family is the smallest unit of a society. That means your father, your mother, your siblings (brothers and sisters), your spouse, your children, your grandparents, your aunts, your uncles etc, but for some persons those do not have blood relatives, for those family are whom you share your feelings, love, happiness and your sorrow.

Family are the people with whom you feel secure and comfortable. A family care, love and protect each other. Love from your family to you is unconditional, Family is one who accept you for what you are.

What ever you learn from childhood is come from family, so what ever is you are today is just because of your family. Person's first education starts with in the family, family is the first teacher to the child. You always left with the impression of your family on you either you belongs to a Modern family or a conservative family, each has their pros and cons but I'm not here to discuss here pros and cons of family type.

Family is the one who always there for you, when you are in problem, give you piece of advice when you need that. You always need someone to share with, family do that to you, you share your happiness, your problems with your family.

If you have a family, you are lucky than those who don't have, so respect that.

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Bond between parents & Child

Our Indian Culture is the most powerful, prestigious & elegant culture in the world. Specially when we talk about parent children relationship. This bond between parents and their children is so magical, which makes this relationship so special.

At one end Mother give birth, protect, nourish, care and raised her child , give observance to her child , teach her child initial lessons of life.

On the other hand, father protect his child from outer world, provide his child a strong shoulder, to feel his child safe and protected. Father teach his child, feel confident to face the world, give etiquette to live in a society and how to take and follow their responsibilities.

There are lots of legendary stories which tells about relationship of parents and child, In Ramayana  Shree Ram exiled to fulfill his father's promise. Relationship of Shree Krishna with his Maiya etc.

Children first learn from their parents, Parents are the ideal for their children. Parents are also responsible to give our society and country a better citizen, who serve his country and society by his services.

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Search of GOD

I heard many ppl that where is god in this iron age, where to search him? Wondering here n thr, searching  for God.. Searching him in temples, gurudwara, mosques and churches.. huh no wonder what they found thr. How do u know he is God when u meet him? How shall u define God?

I heard from ppl that GOD is  who give u life , food , shelter and take care of urself whenever u need him the most...

But ppl forget that on this earth,our parents are our god, who gave u life who fulfill all your needs n requirements, they involved in child's life to help them to mature them from a baby to an adult. Teach u etiquette and other important things that help u live as responsible person in society and make u a complete man/ woman.

parent plays every role for u help u grow  such when u need a friend they become friends of urs, when u need a teacher, they become a teacher for u etc. other than father and mother.

God can't look every one at a time, that's why he made parents to take care of their children. 

But unknowingly we ppl wonder here n thr in search of god.

Always give love and respect to ur parents...

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