No means no

In every one's life some moments come, when you are not interested to something, and you wanted to say NO but due to some reasons you say YES instead of No.

Sometime in pressure, some times you don't want to ruin your relationship with person.

But any how this thing will affect you.

If you are saying YES in pressure, some day the limit of that pressure will over and at time you need to say NO. So why don't you say No in beginning so no one can take advantage of your uprightness, misuse you for their advantage and never tried it on you again.

If you are not saying NO, just because you don't want to ruin your relationship with that person. If the person is real close to you he/she will never mind if you say NO to him/her, that person can be your your family person, friend or family friend. If he/she minds while you are saying No, that means that person cannot be the person for whom you care not to ruin your relationship with him/her.


So, stay cool, and say NO when you want to say to anyone. It will help you stay comfortable for further.

#NomeansNo #Experiences #Pragmatism #Thought #RealLifeExperience

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Build your Emergency Fund

Have you ever imagined to plan for an unexpected emergency/crises that might need a immediate cash at your hand? Yes, the unexpected crises like any kind of medical emergency or your job loss or any financial crises, which disturb your routine life, your current situation. In that kind of crises the fund you saved for emergency, save you from the financial crises, provides you composure and strength to face the crises.

Now how to build your emergency fund, save a significant amount of money that you feel you can save on the basis of  evaluation of your family income and you and your family needful expenses. When you calculate the amount of money you can save, save it in every short period like in every month. Don't wait for a lump sum amount to save. Regular small saving with lump sum amount would me the better option for raise fund for Emergency. Avoid extra inexpedient expenses and add that money to raise your Emergency Fund.

Now next question arises where to keep this fund so the fund must be easily accessible and grow with time, so don't keep it at home. Invest this money very safely, save it to saving bank account of reputed banks which offers higher rate of interests is a better option. A flexible bank account and saving options to withdraw money without any penalty and earn a FD interest rates on your deposited money, for example ICICI Bank's iWish kind of thing is a good option. Invest in Gold and Silver, buy Gold/ Silver Coins and Bars are good options, buy them when price is low. Gold is always good for long term investment, gives a better price return over the year and easily sold when ever you have emergency/crises.

Invest in Mutual funds only when you have knowledge of it or in the supervision of a knowledgeable person.

As I have already told your emergency fund, save you from financial/medical or any kind of crises/emergency  with composure and strength to face the crises/emergency and concentrate on the crises/emergency, instead of arranging fund and borrowing money at higher rate of interest from other sources.

If you never imagined about Emergency Fund for You and your Family, then start planning now.


#Money #Savings #EmergencyFund #Family #Emergency #Crises #MoneyCrises #FinancialCrises #MedicalCrises #MedicalEmergency

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In influence, never ruin friendship / relationship

I have a short story to tell you.

There are three friends A, B and C. B was the BEST friend of A, B always there for A whatever is the condition good or bad, one day there was some dispute happened between A and C, C did something wrong which was not good for A, so A and C start stay away from each other, no Hi no bye, as a best friend B also started stay away and stopped talking, listening everything from C for forever. B was doing that because C did wrong with his/her best friend A. B ruined his relationship with C just for the sake of friendship with A.

But after few months, B sees that the A starts initiate talking, liking things on FB of C, start establish friendship like never nothing has happened. In all this only B became fool, you know why, B ruined his friendship with C for forever just because of A, and now A and C become friends again.

Many of us suffered like B, So moral of the story is that never break your friendship/relation with someone until you have your own issues with person. For friendship sake never ruin your relation/friendship with any other friend or person.

#friendship #relationship  #friend #story #moralofstory #experience #relation #lifeExperiences

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Stop Harassment

There are many forms of harassment you see around you, might be you also gone through or going through any king of harassment- workplace harassment, sexual harassment, personal harassment, racial harassment, harassment on ground of sexual orientation, stalking, eve teasing etc.

When you feel someone is doing wrong with you, put your point robustly to that person, realize him/her that  you don't like what he/she did to you and you really don't agree with it. Warn him/her to never repeat this to you again.

If u are not showing a strong dissidence against that person that means you are encouraging that person to do more things with you. That person dare to do more worse things with you because your silence give him/her courage by two reasons first might be you are scared of him/her, second you are consent with, what he/she is doing with you.

Sometimes this leads to take wrong step due to fear of disgrace by  people and society. So, discuss things with someone to whom you feel comfortable, if you are a boy or girl tell your parents or elders, married person can tell this to their partners.. They will surely find a right way to get rid of your problem.

#Harassment #StopHarassment #stalking #EveTeasing #SexualHarassment

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When time is odd

Life is like a coin and pleasure and pain are two aspects of this coin, sometimes we go through good, happier time, everything is in favor of yours, But as a good time, bad time also there, when everything against you, what ever you do, come against you.

When time is odd, whatever you do, does not worth, even if you want to do something good, turns to bad. Things and people those were in your favor suddenly turn against you, nothing cross one's mind, how to make things right?

If you are going though this phase of life, these are the tips to overcome with this bad phase of life.
Do your work usually, if something goes wrong, do nothing. Do not show aggression, depression and hopelessness because any one of them can make situation more worst. So Stay Calm, just watch and try to control your anger and Stay Motivated, in the hope that tomorrow everything will be alright.

At the end of long dark night, there is always dawn full of hope.

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Learn from mistakes

We all make mistakes, making mistakes is not a bad thing, making mistakes gave you experiences in life, mistake realize you what you can make better?

Sometime we make mistake unknowingly, sometimes knowingly.

Making mistakes unknowingly can be acceptable once, might be life never give you chance again, and can be corrected. These type of mistakes in life give you experiences and  give you alert and aware you with the consequences. So from the next time you shall be cautious to that one. If you are ignoring these kind of same mistakes, those becomes knowingly mistakes.

Repetition of knowingly made mistakes can cause you for a failure, risky and ugly consequences in life. Time never repeats so once you get chance to correct your mistake, make it correct instead of making the same mistake. You'll always grow in life.

Sensible people always learn from their mistakes. So, it's up to you what you want to do.

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Friends

Who is friend?
Friend is the one who care for you, when ever you need them, unconditionally stand for you any time and supports you .

Applause you when you did something good, and slap you when do something wrong same like your mother who cares for you, like a father stop you are going to do something wrong. Friends are like your brother and sister who shares everything with you, get naughty with you.

Most of our friends have the same frequency and wavelength that's match with you.

No matter how much life gets busy, i don't contact my friends  but they are remains in my heart and i never forget them.

Dedicated to:
+Alok Gupta , +Abhishek Nanda , +Anoop Kumar ,  +Amit Mishra , +Aarti Bhagdikar , +Aarti Bhagdikar , +Tarun Jain , +Munish Chaudhary , +MRIGANK SHEKHAR , +Shibani Bhaduri , +Gopal Jaiswal , +laxman kashyap , +Pawan Chauhan , +Natrajan Krishnan , +Sanjay Purohit  ,Ghanshyam Yadav, +Rahul agrawal , +Vanessa Abreu , +Edit Zuszkó , +Gauri Shankar , +vijay singh , +vinkal sachdeva , +Yogesh Sharma , +Shikha Gaurav Sharma , +Pritam Kumar , Varsha Srivastava, Avinash arya, +Saurabh Singh , Avdhesh Singh, Ankita Tewari, Gaurav Agrawal, Amit Singh, +Shreekant Pande , Shraddha Mishra, +Hemant Kumar Bhagat , +Tejas Patel , +Natrajan Krishnan ,

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Key to success

When we talk about how to get success in life, we first start looking into life of successful persons and want to follow them. Compare you with others lead you to some others things rather than success, those are jealous, hate and  feverish, Which divert you from your prime goal.

Compare with others or compete with others can't be the ladders to reach the path of success.

Never compete with other, compete with yourself, when you compete with you, you are actually improving your yourself. Beat your own record everyday. Achieving success is a never ending process, you can't say it is finished now, there is no limit for it.

You make goals and try to achieve them, When you succeed to achieve them, you set new goals for yourself. That is why its never ending continuous process.

Remember, Success is a fight between you and yourself & it's a continuous process and this is the only Key to success.

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Women's Day

On the Women's Day, people instead of praise for women power, organising programs for women, political drama for one day, just assure the women respect for all day, in home, in group, in public, in your organization.

Women's respect is the most important when you wish to give something good to a woman, her self respect and your respect is what she deserve the most in stead of showing off of anything.

My Lovely Mother

You know why, think when a woman is your mother, keeps you 9 months in the womb, bear the pain till birth, after birth care for you, when you are not well, take care of you, sleepless nights for you, sacrifice for you, give you what is necessary for you, become your first teacher, scold you when its necessary, but love you the most. Most of the child are most lovable to his mother. You can't compare mother's love with anyone.

When a woman is your wife, who left her home after marriage, and adjust in a totally new environment with you. Support you in all your sorrow and happiness. Stand along with you when ever you need her. As a friend, as a adviser, as a supporter, as a companion. Care for you all over  life after your mother.

When a woman is your daughter she give you reason to laugh, when you came from work, she refresh your mind with her dollish acts, you remind your childhood, and give you a chance to become a child with her.

Your grandmother, your sister, your aunt, your friend all are the faces of the women.

People who don't respect woman, must read this post, then may be their mean mentality towards women will change. When ones mentality change then the society will change, when society change the state will change, when state change, the country will change, when country change, automatically world view towards Women change.

There are some exceptional cases, but due to those exceptions don't ignore women in your life, and respect all women.

Cheers to Womanhood, Happy Women's Day!!!

Dedicated to My Mother, My Wife +Shikha Gaurav Sharma , my sisters +Ankita Bajpai  +soumya awasthi , all my friends +Ankita Bhagdikar  +Aarti Bhagdikar  +Shibani Bhaduri   +Monika Dehra   +sonal jain  +Aruna  +Nisha Verma  +Vanessa Abreu   and all women...

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Moral and Ethical Education

Today we see our country and society is facing lots of ethical and moral issues, dowry system, dishonesty, corruption, inhumanity etc.

There are lots of cases showing lack of moral and ethical values. I'm not going to start with the list of those issues, what I'm going to click here, why is this happening  around all of us.

Today schools are competing for fee structure, infrastructure, interactive education by providing audio visual classrooms, more experienced teachers with field and practical knowledge. Lots of quiz, puzzle, music competition, cultural programs, sports, defensive skills, yoga and meditation. Providing building blocks for future in carrier prospectives.

But they forgot to teach the lessons for basic things the moral, ethical values and humanity, which are always needful allover your life for you, for your society and for your country. Lack of these basic lessons leads to crime and corruption. Sometimes i must say terrorism is reason because nobody teach them moral lesson of humanity, now days teenagers are involving in serious crime because they are not able to decide what is right and what is wrong, If they go through these lessons, something must resist them for doing wrong.

So there must be compulsion for schools to teach moral and ethical lessons as a compulsory Subject.

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Human Nature

What I can tell about human nature,  ask for more and more and never satisfied with his/her current condition.

When you were a child, you think that everyone is scolding you, might be possible you were not a child, when you grow up, you got busy with life lots of responsibilities, you wish, childhood was the best, no responsibilities, just fun and enjoy the childhood.

When you become old, you surely think i must do that thing when i was young, but during puzzled and running life time at the time of youth, i never got time for this and that. So please spare some time for your dreams, passion, hobbies and loved ones.

I must say enjoy the age in which you are at right now. So you never regret that you never enjoyed your life... and spare free time for your passion dreams, hobbies, family and friends. This is the reason, we call it human nature, asking for more and more and never satisfied.

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Happy Republic Day

We celebrate Republic day on 26th of January of every year to remind us the day when our constitution came in to effect. On this year our constitution completed its 63 years, and we are celebrating our 64th Republic Day today.

Government and Citizens of any country represents the country all over the world, their culture, love and dedication to the country.

Today we Indians are passing through lots of trauma, like terrorism, corruption, chaos in our country. Where we need to understand our responsibility as a citizen of India, responsibility as an individual one for our country, not all things we can left for the Govt., when we citizens are awake, Govt. will be awake.

It's time of youth of India, take a pledge and responsibility of our country at our shoulders, and take care of our cultural heritage, rite, our people to next level where we compete with others in Science and Technology. And fight against terrorism, corruption, chaos and evils of society and everything that come in between the progress of our country. We will protect our mother India..

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Bond between parents & Child

Our Indian Culture is the most powerful, prestigious & elegant culture in the world. Specially when we talk about parent children relationship. This bond between parents and their children is so magical, which makes this relationship so special.

At one end Mother give birth, protect, nourish, care and raised her child , give observance to her child , teach her child initial lessons of life.

On the other hand, father protect his child from outer world, provide his child a strong shoulder, to feel his child safe and protected. Father teach his child, feel confident to face the world, give etiquette to live in a society and how to take and follow their responsibilities.

There are lots of legendary stories which tells about relationship of parents and child, In Ramayana  Shree Ram exiled to fulfill his father's promise. Relationship of Shree Krishna with his Maiya etc.

Children first learn from their parents, Parents are the ideal for their children. Parents are also responsible to give our society and country a better citizen, who serve his country and society by his services.

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Adverse Time and it's solution

Some time in our life we have tough time, we have lots of problems in front of us. We are not able to take decision about what to do what not to do???

At that time Relax your mind and think about what will be the pros and cons if you give up right now? If you give up, you have just only one thing i.e. failure, nothing else, but if you don't give up, there might be two possibilities, First-you may succeed and second you may fail but here you still have chance to get success.

When ever this kind of situation you face, remember never loose hope, never loose your self confident. These are the hidden strengths, which provide power to a person at the time of adversity.

If you don't try you loose the situation but if you try you might handle the situation. Successful people never do the different things but they do things differently. As nobody try to do them in that way..

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Happy New Year 2013

As 2012 is about to End and we are going to enter into a new beginning. Lots of hope, dreams are about to come true. Look for new year resolution, lots of plans what to do, what not to do.

New Year - it's time to celebrate...
Some like to watch television programs, some people enjoy new year by sending greetings and gifts to friends, family and loved ones, some people like partying at home by making hand cooked items. The real celebration is the one which is with our family and friends, now days  people believe in material things.

But i must say, i just want to thank my family and friends for made me happy and smile.

Year 2012, left some good some bad memories, but i wish that new year come with new hope and happiness to every heart.
So, Welcome Year 2013 with open heart.
Good Bye 2012. Welcome New Year 2013.
Wish you all Happy New Year...

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